Tuesday, March 10, 2009

IT CAN BE DONE! IT MUST BE DONE!

Yes, it can be, it must be! Not only to dream, but also to turn the dreams into realities!

Just a few days ago I received one of the most profound messages that went right into the innermost recesses of my spirit.

It raised it up to a new and higher level the thoughts´ whirlwind that has been my mind since my last retirement from ministerial deeds related to the care and protection of abandoned, abused and neglected girls, boys and children

And this message has been so up to the point because of the last 6 years experiences, having been immersed as we were in their so deep and painful circumstances.

It was especially heart rendering getting to know the scarring experiences of the girls who were deprived from their maternal protection, due to the ongoing and rampant wiping out of all family moral values.

This moral bankruptcy left them trapped in their sickening codependency from abusive and violent males, who have become the direst example of the opposite abuser, irresponsible and family protector

It is an undeniable and plainly visible the tragic situation of women in our present generations.

Their individual and collective degrading, originating in their insecurity and the wickedness of their peers, have been propitiated by the absorbing relativity of the rationalizations and justification of the increasing and rampant social aberrations.

The victimized females, since their earliest years of their stolen innocence, have become everyday´s news in the present modern individual and collective perverted behavior

It is also undeniable that this social chaos affects both males and females, without any restriction of social, cultural or economic level, as well as the need to adequately face these both genders social and spiritual maladies.

But this challenging and confronting of the social moral dissolutions must have its goals and existing resources well defined and precise in the analysis of their potential success.

As well as the pondering of their victims opening themselves to and accepting as inevitable or normal their grave problems origins and causes, and their reluctance or unwillingness to seek ways out from their personal negative situations.

This must also be specially analyzed with and adamantly focused in respect to the males counterparts, emphasizing their responsibility through their rightful understanding of what real manhood is.

It is absolutely necessary to make them understand their obligation to become, instead of irresponsible abusers, the natural protectors and loving companions of their partners to be.

This lack of understanding, conviction and commitment to act as real men has derived into the insensitive violence we see in the course of their living circumstances.

And this keep spreading out and over within the complicated and complex spiraling materialistic progress of today and its pervading influence over every type of human behavior

I strongly believe, in relation to the females, that the focus must inevitable be, and consequently the corresponding emphasis, the dire need of their self-esteem and the conviction that as God made them generating reservoirs of life.

We must bring home the message that in the same manner He has given them the nobility and fortitude to defend their offspring as well as themselves.

Because when these rights and obligations are infringed by any one of both sides of the human equation, it is when the children of God, entrusted to their love, protection and care, are victimized, abused, abandoned or neglected

Because the fundamental mission of the transmission, preservation and promoting of a healthy, positive and transcending generation cannot be renounced to, abdicated from!

It cannot be mutilated or relegated to only one of what I already have said are the extremes of the human equation, linked by love and united in their children´ lives, existence and behavior

There is a mutual responsibility that cannot be ignored even if the women are the depositories of hope and fortitude while men are of the thrust, the fulfillment, the provision and the protection of the human circle that came out into existence by their male-female enduring relationship

This is why I was so moved by the sequence of the message, being the first part related to the mother´s heart and love in relation to her sons.

It is especially relevant because of the reflection on the nature and the existing premises for the present and future generations of parents within this conflictive, distorted and confusing modern generational situation.

Everybody should give due recognition to the originators and compilers of the message and to those that so generously took upon themselves its distribution without regard to potential apprehension, rejection or discomfort of its reception.

I could not resist the impulse of turning it into a video to disseminate it through the electronic waves for the benefit of any one in the unknown and undetermined internet audiences.

My hope is this unknown one could be nagged to exhaustion by their conscience or its spirit up to the point that there is no other recourse for them but to pursue the meaningful understanding of life and behavior.


THE PREFERRED CHILD!

Once, a mother was asked… Who was her preferred child? The one she loved most. And she, letting a smile get through, answered: anything is more variable than a mother´s heart!

And she said: as a mother I answer: the dilect child… the one I dedicate myself most to, with all my being is…
My sick one… until healthy! The one departed… until back home again!
The tired one… until rested! The hungry one… until fed! The thirsty one… until satiated!
The studying one… until learning! the naked one… until dressed!
The unemployed one… until a job is got!
The one in love… until married! The married one… until harmoniously living!
The parenting one… until protecting and raising their own!
The promising one… until promises are fulfilled!
The one in debt… until payment is done!
The crying one… until tears and pain subside!

And then, smile gone, and sober, she ended:
the one who already left me… until we get together.

A MOTHER´S HEART!! HOPE AND FORTITUDE FOR EVER!

Enjoy the content of the first one (the preferred child) and analyze it. Meditate on the transcendence of its contained reflections.

And, at the same time, become transmitting links of its beauty and deepness of the feelings and realities of modern living for the benefit of any one in need of exhortation and example.

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