Thursday, February 5, 2009

TO JUANITA AND IN HER, TO ALL THE YOUNG TEENAGER GIRLS OF THE WORLD




Life is not a rose garden without thorns! Probably you could say… Too many disappointments have already come by! Sure! There are many that have, could, and will pop up in your lives! Of every type! From every source! In any circumstance!

But what is totally illogical and absurd is a young girl wasting their life and renouncing to her right to a future, no matter how immature we could believe she is, because of the rampant alienation and systematic destruction of everything that could smell to social value and personal and positive identity and integrity

We cannot keep on allowing as a routine and everyday news, undeserving of any particular concern or consideration, the red note reports of abandonment, rejection or abuse. it is lacerating and painful the daily spectacle of so many vivential clowns who at the top of their shouts proclaim as indispensable the impossible dreams and placebo solutions for the bleeding remnants tossed aside by uncontrolled and immeasurable materialistic ambitions.

Because the real innocent victims are not only the present ones but also the new ones to come! Because if we consider ourselves victims we are victims only of our own inconsequence! But what about them? What about all those youngsters, male and female, irresponsible and immature who have been already robbed of their innocence, first by the alienation and the widely publicized and promoted consuming consumism and its consequent if not inevitable and in every case shameful emotional and even physical individual and collective rape.

It is a regrettable, inacceptable and shameful attitude even if already a customary one both in the media and in the majority of the bystanding people, because of its innuendo of indifference and tediousness if not of morbid curiosity, the comments about the tragic circumstance of a young and immature teenager throwing herself over a cliff because of a more immature boy, just because of her, feeling depressed and disappointed by his rejection

It hurts too deeply to read the newspapers headlines reporting. In my grandparent´s eyes and understanding there is no justification to just expose such an unnecessary tragedy. It would be so much worthier for all those who consider themselves the pillars of society, to dedicate themselves to the betterment of the integral well being of all the young lives around, starting logically with their own homes, to stop the spreading around of the pervasive example of so many “little spoiled brats and sons and daughters of daddies” who show themselves without shame on so many reality shows and wild on TV episodes.

What we all should do is to encourage their self-esteem in every one of our youngsters, our own and those around, especially in our young girl teenagers, incessantly and exhaustively insisting with our boys so they imprint in their mind, spirit and emotions the need to understand, assimilate and make it their own, what a real manhood is and what the real purpose in life every man is called for to fulfill.

Because everything in life is a challenge to overcome and not and ineludible condemnation, egotistical convenience or failure! Because everything is possible if we have God in our hearts and we face life with energy, optimism, determination and clear conscience.

To you, Juanita, and in you to all the young girls of this world…

Learn to choose! Do not resign yourself to be just manipulated and chosen by undeserving and unworthy of this world!
Remember that you are God´s daughter, and imprint in the innermost part of yourself that you are the apple of His eyes and that you deserve a future where you can be capable to express and transmit all the good that you have within as well as the right to be appreciated, respected and loved by the partners of your lives to be, leaving aside and behind the irresponsible, the insecure, the immature ones, without consideration to their social standing and style

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